Meeting parents before dating
If your parents are more formal in the sense that a suit and tie at dinner is called for, then perhaps you should take more time to prep your partner beforehand so he or she knows what to expect.Either way, all parties have to be ready for the meeting if you want it to be a success.For example, in the first few moments of your introduction, if your future in-laws laugh and think you have a good sense of humor, they may very well think you have good sense of humor for years and years to come, interpreting even somewhat lackluster remarks as more evidence that you are indeed witty, funny, or clever.This is all happening, by the way, regardless of whether you really do have a good sense of humor (or not).If you know of any outright opposition to the relationship, try to prep your date with any background information — understanding perspectives can help soften attitudes — that might explain why your parents feel the way they do.
” Unfortunately, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer to tell you what exact time you should bring him home.
Some parents are just that way and you cannot fault them for being so set in their traditional ways.
If you have parents like these, then just play ball with them and only introduce your partner to them when things are very serious.
Don’t expect to win over families at your first meeting.
Long-standing attitudes and prejudices won’t be cast aside immediately just because you’re a great person.